Welcome to Church of our Lady-ATC
The purpose of the Church of Our Lady – ATC is devoted to preserving, practicing, and passing on the sacred mysteries of Wicca and Pagan spirituality. We provide a sanctuary for seekers, a training ground for clergy, and a hearth for those called to serve the Divine through love, wisdom, ritual, and community.
We honor the cycles of nature, the balance of Goddess and God, and the sacred spark within every soul. Through education, ritual, and service, we walk the path of the Wise with integrity, compassion, and devotion — lighting the way for others to do the same.
Exclusive Services
High Priestess • Ordained through Aquarian Tabernacle Church (Oklahoma)
Representing Church of Our Lady – ATC
Mary Ellen Colfer offers Pagan, spiritual, and non-denominational wedding and Rites of Passage ceremonies, welcoming couples and friends of all paths, identities, and beliefs. Each ceremony is created with care, intention, and respect for your story.
The Simple Union — $150
Perfect for elopements, courthouse-style ceremonies, or intimate gatherings.
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Initial consultation (email or phone)
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Short, meaningful ceremony
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Legal officiation and signing of marriage license
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Optional light spiritual blessing
⏱️ Ceremony length: 10–15 minutes
📍 One local location
The Sacred Union — $250
For couples seeking a spiritual or Pagan-inspired ceremony.
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Consultation and ceremony planning
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Customized ceremony script
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Optional Pagan or spiritual elements
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Betrothal ceremony or permanent handfasting
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Optional invocation of elements or deities
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Legal officiation
⏱️ Ceremony length: 20–30 minutes
📍 One ceremony location
The Handfasting Rite — $350
For deeply rooted Pagan or Wiccan unions.
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In-depth consultation
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Fully customized Pagan or Wiccan ceremony
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Permanent handfasting
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Elemental blessings
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Sacred space opening and closing
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Optional ancestor acknowledgment
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Legal officiation (if desired)
⏱️ Ceremony length: 30–45 minutes
📍 Indoor or outdoor settings
The Devotional Union — $500
For couples seeking a fully devotional, clergy-led spiritual rite.
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Multiple consultations
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Custom-written ritual created specifically for the couple
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Deity-focused or tradition-specific ceremony (when appropriate)
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Ritual tools and altar setup (as applicable)
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Sacred vows and blessing
Legal officiation
⏱️ Ceremony length: 45–60 minutes
📍 Ideal for community, coven, or destination ceremonies
The Simple Threshold — $150
The Simple Threshold — $150
For intimate or straightforward rites marking a life transition.
Includes:
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Initial consultation (email or phone)
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Short, meaningful ceremony
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Light spiritual blessing
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Optional elemental acknowledgment
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Ceremony script tailored to the occasion
⏱️ Ceremony length: 10–20 minutes
📍 One local location
The Sacred Crossing — $250
For personal or family rites with deeper spiritual intention.
Includes:
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Consultation and ceremony planning
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Customized ritual script
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Elemental or directional blessings
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Optional deity, ancestor, or spirit acknowledgment
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Guidance for participants or family involvement
⏱️ Ceremony length: 20–30 minutes
📍 Indoor or outdoor settings
The Rite of Transformation — $350
For significant life changes or spiritual milestones.
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In-depth consultation
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Fully customized ritual created specifically for the individual
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Sacred space creation and closing
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Symbolic actions (cords, candles, tokens, etc.)
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Optional community participation
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Ritual tools provided as appropriate
⏱️ Ceremony length: 30–45 minutes
📍 Ideal for Coming of Age, Crone/Sage rites, or major transitions
The Devotional Passage — $500
For deeply spiritual, clergy-guided rites or end-of-life ceremonies.
Includes:
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Multiple consultations
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Full devotional ritual written uniquely for the individual
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Deity-focused or tradition-specific rite (when appropriate)
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Ancestor acknowledgment or psychopomp-focused blessings
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Ritual tools, altar setup, and sacred framework
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Support for family or community participants
⏱️ Ceremony length: 45–60 minutes
📍 Suitable for Bridge Crossing, Funerals, or Elder Rites
Rites of Passage
Church of Our Lady – ATC
Rites of Passage mark meaningful transitions in our lives. These ceremonies honor personal growth, spiritual milestones, and the sacred turning points that shape who we are becoming. At Church of Our Lady – ATC, our rites are thoughtfully crafted, inclusive, and rooted in reverence for both tradition and individual path.Each ceremony may be customized to reflect your beliefs, intentions, and spiritual journey.
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Wiccaning/Name Ceremony- gentle and welcoming rite that honors new life or formally introduces a chosen name. This ceremony focuses on protection, intention, and community support, welcoming the child (or renamed individual) into the world with love and blessing.
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Coming-of-Age Ceremonies- Designed to honor the transition from childhood into adolescence or adulthood. These rites recognize personal growth, responsibility, self-identity, and spiritual awareness, creating a meaningful moment of reflection and empowerment.
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Dedication & Rededication Rites- For those formally committing (or recommitting) themselves to a spiritual path, deity, or practice. These rites acknowledge intention, devotion, and personal alignment with one’s beliefs.
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Initiations Initiation Rites - ark deeper spiritual commitments and milestones within one’s practice. These ceremonies are reserved for individuals who have prepared for this transition and wish to formally step into a new phase of spiritual responsibility and understanding.
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Handfasting & Betrothal Ceremonies- A sacred union celebrating love, commitment, and partnership. Betrothal ceremonies honor intent and promise, while handfastings may celebrate lifelong unions or deeply personal bonds. All couples are welcome.
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Crossing & Memorial Rites Ceremonies- honoring those who have passed, offering comfort, remembrance, and spiritual closure. These rites focus on honoring legacy, love, and the continuing connection between the living and the departed.
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Life Transitions & Personal Milestones- For moments that don’t fit neatly into a category — healing rites, career transitions, spiritual rebirth, divorce or separation blessings, gender affirmation rites, or personal transformations. These ceremonies are uniquely crafted to honor your lived experience.
Optional Add-On Services
Optional Add-Ons for Wedding/Hand-Fasting Ceremonies
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Rehearsal attendance: $75
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Travel outside Lawton area: $0.50/mile (after first 20 miles)
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Vow writing assistance: $50
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Custom prayers or invocations: $40
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Keepsake handfasting cords: Starting at $35
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Vow renewals / anniversary ceremonies: Starting at $200
Optional Rites of Passage Ceremony Add-Ons
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Travel outside Lawton area: $0.50/mile (after first 20 miles)
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Keepsake ritual items (cords, candles, charms): Starting at $35
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Written keepsake ritual or blessing: $40
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Rehearsal or walk-through: $50
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Ongoing spiritual counseling related to the rite: By request
